i have been helping out a friend recently who has trouble with their classmates. i wont mention who as i respect others privacy. but from what i see & from what i heard, i never thought i would say it but yes,
my classmates are way better!though our classes talks behind each others back & can sometimes hate each other, in the end, we still talk to each other. we do not gather an army & try to make some feel isolated. even though our course is almost over, we dont do that. ani dorang alum tantu abis tahun ani, udah tia main pulau-pulaukan orang. like the heck? thats childish! what will happen if youre on a groupwork? dont you think of that?
thats one thing. the other day they complaint about my friend being angry on the facebook was inappropriate. okay, its true. i admit it myself, it is wrong. but how about your troops who does that? its okay for you guys but not okay for them? i thought self defense by shooting your anger at them in the class was enough but i guess it wasnt, as i see it from one of the troops status having an issue with my friend being silent now. it got me wondering, what the heck do they want actually? her showing anger is wrong, her backing off is wrong? isnt backing off good?
i honestly say, my friends was wrong but that doenst mean the others are not. is it my friend's fault that you choose side? is it my other friend's fault to make you judge others? i really dont understand whats wrong with admitting youre wrong & not pointing it out on one person.
& saying that once both person has said they dont want each other when they are on raging fire, means they shouldnt be together. well youre wrong! for god sake! havent you heard "never give up on something or someone you love?" even gossipgirl says it,
"in the face of true love, you dont just give up". sure we do not know if it is true love or not but being together for a year, isnt that real? okay lah, jangantah jauh. what if one of your parents doesnt show you equal love to you & when theyre mad at you they swore. would you give up on them? would you abandon your parents? i dont think so. you'll eventually forgive them, right? tulah ada mun buduh cematu, auzubillah.
the moment i see how they are the other day, i have gone speechless. & in my mind was,
"im glad my classmates are better than these people." i didnt even know how to defend my friend properly. & an older person has to be reminded of his responsibility before hitting another person. pathetic i should say. hes lucky i dont give complaints to his department cause urging to hit a kid can cause him a warning from his workforce.
if one of the troops are reading this, sadar-sadar tah mun rasanya kan banar-banar belajar sana atu. think about groupwork & discussion studies. & dont you know such stress can cause a suicide? so dont be childish. & to my classmates, god! you guys dont know how thankful i am on how mature you guys actually are! :)
okay, enough said. i got school to attend. till next time.
